Fancy flats for entertaining at home during the festive season:

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Fancy flats for entertaining at home during the festive season:

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If you’re looking for some festive sparkle to add to your Christmas outfits or you’re in need of Christmas gift inspiration, take a look below at my Christmas edit of jewellery from vintage jewellery brand Eclectica. Founded by Liz Wilson in 1988, Eclectica began life on a market stall in Londonโs Camden passage. Their vintage jewels are now stocked in John Lewis and have featured in film and television including Barbie, Empire of Light and The Great.
Iโve highlighted some of my favourite pieces from their collection below and have a special discount code for followers of The Lady’s Maid – use the code TLM10 for 10% off all items at Eclectica Vintage Jewellery. (N.B. Many items below are one offs or available in limited quantities – up-to-date availability can be found at the Eclectica website).


1950s Vintage Double Clip Brooch, ยฃ55.


This elegant brooch featuring white diamante and blue rhinestones doubles up as lapel pins giving it extra style points for versatility. Claw-set on chrome-plated metal.ย Measurements: L6.5cm x W3cm
1950s Red Rhinestone Brooch, ยฃ60

Deep red navette rhinestones surrounding clear round rhinestones in a flower shape. All stones are claw-set on chrome-plated metal.ย Measurements: 4cm.
1980s Vintage Shooting Stars Drop Earrings, Pierced, SOLD

The perfect party piece to accessorize your New Yearโs Eve outfit – silver tone and diamante shooting star earrings for pierced ears. Measurements: L6.6cm x W2.8cm
1950’s purple rhinestone brooch, SOLD

A beautiful statement brooch featuring three tones of purple rhinestones in an open circular shape with five deep amethyst purple glass teardrops dropping down. All stones are claw-set on gold-plated metal. Roll pin fastening. Measurements: H7.5cm x W5.5cm
1980s Attwood & Sawyer Horse Brooch

An ideal gift for horse enthusiasts. This Attwood & Sawyer brooch features two gold-plated horse heads, one with black enamel and the other with soft grey enamel and Swarovski crystals. Signed A&S on reverse. Measurements: L5cm x W3.5cm.
1980s Vintage Swarovski Drop Clip-On Earrings, ยฃ125.

Vintage drop earrings featuring grey and clear oval swrovski crystals on pewter-plated metal. Signed with the Swarovski swan. Measurements: L5.7cm x W2.2cm
Red rhinestone clip earrings, ยฃ55.

Add some festive red to you Christmas outfit with these pillar box red Swarovski crystal clip on earrings featuring a central oval stone surrounded by small clear Swarovski crystals. Measurements: approx 2cm x 2cm.
Vintage Attwood & Sawyer Ribbon Brooch, ยฃ68.

A sparkling, pretty ribbon brooch by Attwood & Sawyer that dates back to the 1960s made up of chrome and Swarovski crystals. Signed A&S. Measurements: L4.8cm x W3.6cm.
Vintage Attwood & Sawyer Drop Earrings, Pierced, ยฃ115.

An elegant pair of drop earrings by Attwood & Sawyer in gold plate and Swarovski crystal. Signed A&S. Measurements: L6cm x W1.5cm.
1980s Vintage Cabochon Clip-On Earrings, ยฃ60.

Vibrant red enamel clip-on earrings with Swarovski crystal teardrops hanging from a gold-plated metal top. Measurements: L3.6cm x W1.5cm
Vintage Attwood & Sawyer Gold Plated Christmas Tree Brooch, ยฃ75.

Make any jumper a Christmas jumper with this gold plated Christmas tree brooch by Attwood & Sawyer featuring emerald green and ruby red Swarovksi crystals. Signed A&S. Measurements: L5cm x W3cm.
1980s Vintage Chunky Faux Pearl Necklace, Magnetic Clasp, ยฃ95.

Is there anything more timeless in the jewellery box than a classic set of pearls. A great way to accessorise a classic shift dress. This large faux pearl necklace in a chic mink colour features a magnetic chrome and Swarovski Crystal clasp. Measurements: 18.5โ long, each faux Pearl is 11mm.

A pretty 1980s vintage brooch from the Museum of Modern Art in a flowing ribbon design with faux pearls surrounding a central sapphire coloured Swarovski crystal. Marked MMA on the reverse. Measurements: L5.5cm x W3.5cm
Attwood & Sawyer Swarovski Crystal Perched Owl Brooch, ยฃ70.

A 1990s brooch by Attwood and Sawyer depicting an owl perched on a branch. Plated in 22ct gold, the bird is studded with Swarovski Crystals and gleaming red eyes. Stamped with A&S on the reverse. Dimensions: H2cm x W2.5cm.
Vintage Gold/Purple Clip on Earrings, ยฃ65.

Pretty purple oval glass and Swarovski crystal clip-on earrings, set on 18ct gold-plated metal. Dated circa 1980s. Measurements: H2.0cm x W1.5cm. (Matching necklace available).
Vintage Faux Amethyst Pendant, ยฃ45.

Pretty purple oval glass stone pendant surrounded by smaller clear Swarovski crystals set on 18ct gold-plated metal. This pendant hangs from an 18ct gold-plated snake chain with a lobster clasp and extension chain, allowing it to be worn at different lengths. Measurements: Chain: L45cm- 54cm, Pendant: 3cm x 1.7cm. (Matching earrings available).
1960s Vintage Blue and Diamante Bracelet, ยฃ85.

An elegant bracelet from the 1960s with sapphire blue pear shaped smooth cabochon stones surrounded by smaller white paste stones (Due to the age of the bracelet some of the white stones have a slightly yellow tinge to them but overall the bracelet is in great condition). Measurements: 18cm long, 1.4cm wide.
1950s Vintage Austrian Clip-On Earrings, ยฃ85.

Striking blue Austrian clip-on earrings with claw-set blue rhinestones on japanned metal. Measurements: L3.5cm x W2.5cm.
Attwood & Sawyer Swarovski Crystal Heart Brooch, ยฃ65.

A swirling heart shape brooch decorated with sparkling Swarovski crystals. Attwood & Sawyer created this brooch in the 1980s from 22ct gold plated metal. Dimensions: H3.5cm x W3cm.

A pretty cerise pink rectangle stone pendant with white rhinestone surround set on chrome with a fine chrome chain. Measurements: 16-19″ long chain. Pendant is 2cm x 1.2cm.
Large 1980s Lizard Brooch, ยฃ65.

This lively lizard brooch has two large red cabochons topped off with clear Swarovski crystals. The brooch measures 10cm x 3.5cm.
Discount code: TLM10 for 10% off all items at Eclectica Jewellery.

A round-up of my favourite fair isles and novelty knits to wear for the festive season.




Donegal fair isle jumper – Campbells of Beuly









Fair Isle funnel neck jumper – M&S






















Black sequin star jumper – Monsoon


I have selected some of my favourite British brands to feature in this Christmas style and gift guide. As most Christmas shopping will be done online this year I thought it would be a good idea to bring together some great British brands that complement each another into one virtual Christmas โpop-upโ shop, and encourage people to shop from British independent brands this Christmas. Many milliners and designers, such as Camilla Rose, Bee Smith, Beverley Edmonson and Lisa Redman, have pivoted during the pandemic by introducing small accessories which are a bit more lockdown friendly than their usual flamboyant race day creations. I’ve also included a few beautiful occasion wear pieces by Laura Green, Suzannah London, Vaai and Lalage Beaumont, Claire Mischevani and Caroline Charles for those who are planning on dressing up for Christmas Day at home. There’s luxe loungewear and fancy flats from Sargasso and Grey, Yosuru, Ethereal London, Nuiami and Bombshell, for sitting room soirees. For more casual festive style, take a look at my top picks from Troy London, Really Wild and Guinea London for Christmas walks in the countryside. Finally, it wouldn’t be Christmas without a bit of sparkle, courtesy of Jennifer Gibson, Susan Caplan and Auree Jewellery. I hope you enjoy browsing and find something suitable to buy for yourself or to give to your friends and family and support small British brands this Christmas!
Accessories:








Jewellery:




Susan Caplan – Vintage Jewellery



Amelia Coates






Millinery:




Festive fedoras:

My top picks from Troy for Christmas in the country:



Festive Style:






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Smart/Casual Festive Frocks






More festive velvet pieces from Bombshell:

Smart/Casual Festive Frocks


Elegant and comforatbale festive flats and low-heeled shoes. Use the code: THELADYSMAID20 for 20% off.

Luxury Loungewear:


For the Little Ladies:
Gifts benefitting charity:



Stocking fillers:





Happy shopping! ๐
(N.B. this guide contains some affiliate links)
If youโre still looking for Christmas gift ideas for stylish ladies, here are some of my top picks to help with your Christmas shopping this week. The only โpersonโ Iโve bought for so far is my dog, so I need a little inspiration myself! (And if any of my family are reading this, this is pretty much my wish list, hint hint ๐).
Stocking Fillers
No ladyโs maid would be without a fully stocked sewing kit โ This Liberty print sewing scissors and holder would be a stylish addition to it for a budding seamstress.

My favourite chocolates at Christmas time from Hotel Chocolat; best to only buy the pocket selection or I wonโt stop eating them ๐

Please donโt think me weird for including a stapler in my wish list, but thereโs something about Ted Bakerโs โletโs get togetherโ rose gold stapler that I love! Perhaps one for those who are hard to buy for, have a sense of humour and like a tidy desk.
I love Christmas scented candles โ these are two of my favourites from Marks & Spencer โ Frankincense and Myrrh and Mandarin and clove.ย Really good value and they smell amazing.
A Royal Christmas – a great Christmas book, published by the Royal Collection Trust, exploring the Christmas traditions of royalty, past and present.

Luxury Gifts
I know you shouldnโt be swayed by packaging, but when itโs a Fortnumโs hamper I donโt really care whatโs in it โ just save the basket for me ๐

This world class tech case is a really good buy for jet-setting ladies who travel a lot โ keeping all your gadgets organised in style on the move. Available in different colour combinations, but this is my favourite.
I love Smythson notebooks and diaries. I especially like this Soho diary as it has a โTo Doโ page for notes each week as well. The cobalt blue is super stylish.
Aspinal currency wallet โ I have a similar wallet to this one that I bought from Heathrow Airport several years ago when I was travelling a lot and didnโt want to carry different wallets for multiple currencies โ really useful.

Wilbur & Gussie make the most stylish clutches. Itโs impossible to pick a favourite, but this gold glitter clutch is a wardrobe classic.

For hat-loving ladies with a busy social calendar in 2019 โ an unlimited hat hire voucher for a year from The Cotswold Hat Club. Wear a different one each weekend if you want! Great value if you have a lot of formal day dress events to plan for.

You canโt go wrong with a cashmere scarf as a gift. These ones from John Lewis are great value for cashmere, and available in a large range of colours, I like this coral red to brighten up wintery days.

Add a glamorous touch to your winter coats with a brooch from Susan Caplan. I like this wreath of pearls and turquoise โ it would look great on a winter white coat. (20% off with the code LADYSMAID20).

I couldnโt not mention my book! If youโre bored of the family on Christmas afternoon, then dip into a copy of Wardrobe Wisdom and start planning your New Year Wardrobe for 2019.


Christmas Jumpers
You may think that Christmas jumpers have no place on a page about style, but youโd be wrong! I used to think they were incredibly naff โ my main image of them being from American 80s/90s Christmas movies. These days there are much more subtle and stylish festive sweaters out there, so you donโt need to worry about looking like your Grandma dressed you on Christmas Jumper Day. In my wardrobe, this silver sequinned angel jumper, bought from Top Shop in 2015, is a favourite. The plus side of only wearing it a few days a year is that itโs still in excellent condition! ย (There are a few on ebay if you like it.)
Christmas Jumper Day is on Friday 14 December this year. People in schools and offices across the UK wear their best novelty knit in aid of Save the Children. Iโve trawled through the festive knitwear on offer to bring you some of my favourites โ from novelty knits to stylish sequins, via festive Fair Isle: thereโs a Christmas jumper out there for everyone!
Novelty Knits
M&S leads the way with some stylish and wearable Christmas jumpers this year. These are three of my favourites:
Embellished Mistletoe jumper, M&S



All other high street stores now have a Christmas knitwear offering too โ there are some good ones in H&M, Next and Dorothy Perkins. Tu at Sainsburys and George at Asda also have some great ones:
Sequin stag sweater, Dorothy Perkins
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Red reindeer studded jumper, New Look
Are you noticing a pattern? I quite like reindeers ๐ Gold sequin reindeer jumper, Monsoon

One for dog lovers โ puppy in antlers from Tu at Sainsburys

ย A subtle offering from Top Shop โ a mini candy cane crested black jumper

There are quite a few Fair Isle/novelty hybrids if you want something that doesnโt scream Christmas:
Jacquard knit reindeer Fair Isle, H&M
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Slogan knitwear merges with festive fun in this โbaby itโs cold outsideโ sweater from Bella Freud

Make it easy for people to guess your drinks order with this Navy sequinned champagne Christmas jumper from Asda

JOY red sweatshirt โ Save the Children x Selfish Mother. 50% of the retail price is donated to Save the Children.

Everything sounds better en francais โ โjoyeux Noรซlโ from Top shop

Festive Fair Isle
If you donโt want to spend money on a jumper that you only wear one or two days a year, then Fair Isle is a great alternative to the novelty knits โ still Christmassy but much more stylish and wearable throughout the winter months, not just December. Fair Isle knits are named after the place where they originate from โ the tiny island of Fair Isle, one of the Scottish Shetland islands (where youโll be in need of a cosy knit to keep warm at Christmas). The style became popular in the 1920s when the then Prince of Wales was photographed wearing a Fair Isle jumper whilst playing golf. Since then theyโve become a winter wardrobe classic, especially during the festive season.


Mohair Icelandic jumper, Brora

Fair Isle sweater, Ralph Lauren


Somersby Fair Isle, Jack Wills

Stylish Sequins
Another more wearable option to the classic Christmas jumper is sequinned and jewelled knitwear โ a great cocktail casual option for Christmas parties. I particularly like the grey ones as the dull colour carries sequins and jewels really well.
This grey jumper with bow motif from HM is my top pick

I also love this pretty blush snowflake number from Next โ this would look great with a pleated satin skirt and sparkly silver heels

Jewel embellished jumper, Warehouse


Arqyle sweater with sequins, Zara

These Christmas jumpers all get the seal of style approval from The Lady’s Maid – which one will you pick for Christmas Jumper Day?!

The festive season is just around theย corner, and The Lady’s Maidย loves a Christmas ย party frock!
In this post I have picked my top five festive dresses from Bombshell HQ – a London based dress label designed by Katya Wildman who specialises in elegant dresses for curvy ladies.
Mother of the Bride โ Christmas Wedding

Forest green was one of the most popular colour choices at the recent Royal wedding this year. Itโs a great colour for brunettes and perfect choice for a Christmas Wedding Mother of The Bride. Iโve styled Bombshellโs Confident dress in dark green here with a feathered hat by Bundle Maclaren, available to hire from The Cotswold Hat Club, green velvet clutch and heels from L.K. Bennett and vintage star earrings by YSL available from Vestiare Collective.
Winter Wedding
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All shades of red have to be the most popular choice for the festive season. If you like your reds a little more mature and discreet, as opposed to a standout scarlet, then this mulberry hue is the one for you. Pictured is the Scoop Neck Elliptical Midi Skirt Dress in wine accessorized with a matching pill box hat and kitten heels from Phase Eight, clutch from Hobbs and vintage earrings by Jennifer Gibson.
Christmas Party

It wouldnโt be Christmas without some burgundy velvet. Iโve picked out the Stretch Luxe ยพ length sleeve in wine velvet as my top choice for a Christmas party frock. Accessorized here with matching velvet heels by L.K. Bennett, bag by Dune London, earrings by Susan Caplan and a winter white coat from Hobbs.
Christmas Day
ย The Midnight Tartan on this Scoop Neck Elliptical Midi Skirt Dress is a great choice if you want to dress up on Christmas Day. Iโve accessorized it here for a trip to church on Christmas morning โ winter coat and faux fur scarf by Hobbs, bag by Aspinal of London, gloves by Mulberry, heels by Rupert Sanderson ย and earrings available at Vestiare.
New Yearโs Eve Ball

You canโt wear too much glitter on New Yearโs Eve! If you have a fancy ball to go to over the festive season then this Gold Sequin Gown will put you at the top of the best dressed list. Glam it up to the max with a glitter clutch from Wilbur & Gussie, snake hoop vintage earrings by Susan Caplan and sandals by Dune London.

As Christmas falls in the midst of bleak midwinter, you may find the prospect of wearing short party dresses a little uninviting. Sparkly sandals may look pretty, but they only really look good on bare legs โ tight-seamed toes are a fashion no-no โ so if you are wearing a short dress, The Ladyโs Maid advises going for dressy court shoes so that you donโt freeze as you tip-toe around the party circuit this festive season. As a dress code, cocktail dresses are traditionally short in length (mini to knee length). Christmas is a great time to go for rich jewel shades โ think sapphire blue, emerald green and burgundy red โ or metallic silver/gold sequinned numbers. Here are the Ladyโs Maidโs top picks for party dresses on the high street:







Christmas jumpers are a fun novelty addition to the wardrobe during the festive season – you may not want to โdress upโ when at home on Christmas Day so donning a Christmas jumper can be a comfy and casual way of entering into the festive spirit. They can be stylish too – The Ladyโs Maid suggests selecting Fairisle or star patterns โญ๏ธ so that you can wear them a little longer than the 12 days of Christmas!๐ Here are her top picks for festive knitwear and how to wear them:
Star Embellished Novelty Jumper, ยฃ29.50, Marks and Spencer

A light-weight knit that can easily be tucked into skirts or worn casually with jeans. Shown here dressed down with jeans from Mint Velvet and Grey suede boots from Ted Baker. Or dress it up with a silver pleated skirt,ย block heel sandals from Whistles and matching clutch from Dune.

Berry Red Snowflake Jumper, ยฃ26, Dorothy Perkins

Features pretty diamantรฉ snowflake embellishents. Shown here with a maroonย pleated skirt from Ted Baker and Burgundy velvetย heels from Boden.

Star Black Cashmere Sweater, Chinti and Parker ยฃ350

Luxurious and playful – this starry โforever sweaterโ is shown here with cashmere star wristwarmers and hat from Brora, black scrunch suede ankle boots from Carvela Kurt Geiger and a winter white coat from Ted Baker.

Jewelled Fairisle Cashmere Jumper, N Peal, ยฃ399

Farisle is a stylish alternative to the novelty jumper and looks trendy as well as traditional. Perfect for cosy Christmas weekend walks.ย Seen here with tan leather Dune boots a tanย Jaeger wrap wool coat and cream cable beanie hat.

Fliss Fairisle Jumper, Monsoon, ยฃ55

This cosy cream/grey fair isle jumper from Monsoon features pretty sparkling beads across the pattern.ย Shown here with a long wool skirt from Joseph,ย grey suede ankle boots from Mint Velvet,ย a faux fur jacket from Reiss and star earrings from Estella Bartlett.


With the arrival of Advent, The Ladyโs Maidโs mind has turned to the small matter of Christmas shopping. This post looks at her favourite ideas for Christmas stocking fillers with a Ladyโs Maidโs leaning.
Liberty Print Sewing Roll Kit, John Lewis, ยฃ15.95
No Ladyโs Maid would be without a sewing kit. This useful sewing kit from Liberty has everything youโll need to make basic sewing alterations on the go. Features a classic โThe Strawberry Thiefโ Liberty print.
Katie Loxton Travel Jewellery Case, โSparkle Everydayโ, John Lewis, ยฃ19.99
This pretty gold leather heart jewellery case, lined with grey suede, is the perfect travel accessory to keep your jewels safe on the go so you can sparkle every day everywhere!
Cashmere Pilling Comb, M&S, ยฃ5

If Father Christmas has brought you a luxury cashmere jumper this year, you will need to give it plenty of TLC to keep it in top condition. Knitwear is prone to pilling (little bobbles) after wear, so a pilling comb is essential for all those who covet cashmere. (See Caring forย Cashmere for more tips on the care of woollen knitwear).
Golden Lily Lavender Eye Mask, Morris & Co., ยฃ16 ย

If the festive season gets a little too much, you can relax in style with this Golden Lily Lavender Eye Mask from Morris & Co., featuring a classic William Morris print.
Vintage & Co. Fabrics & Flowers Scented Drawer Liners, Heathcote & Ivory, ยฃ7

Scented drawer liners will help keep your clothing fresh as well as repelling bugs such as moths. These vintage fabric and flowers patterned liners from Heathcote & Ivory will also add a touch of colour to your drawers and shelves. (Fragrance Notes: Orange Blossom, Sweet Birch, Gardenia, Jasmine, Rose, Lilac, Coconut, Peach, Amber and Vanilla). See The Scourge of the Moth for more tips on how to repel this pesky pest.
Mini Initial Lavender Pillow, Museum Selection, ยฃ9

Delicate, hand-embroidered cotton pillows filled with lavender inspired by Victorian embroidery.ย Lavender is particularly hated by moths, so place these in your knitwear drawers to help keep moths at bay.
“Star of Wonder” Myrrh & Opium Flower Scented Candle, M&S, ยฃ7.50

Christmas candles create a cosy ambience on winter nights at home โ this Myrrh and Opium candle from M&S is subtle and exotic without being overpowering.
LโOccitane Refreshing Verbena Bauble, M&S, ยฃ12

The Ladyโs Maidโs dainty hands suffer in wintertime, especially when she is hand-washing delicates! This festive bauble will add a little luxury to your hand-care. Inside the gold bauble there are three LโOccitane verbena surprises: verbena soap gently cleanses, and the hand cream and body lotion protect and moisturise hands and skin, leaving behind an invigorating scent.
Twelve Poems for Christmas, Seren, ยฃ5

A sparkling anthology of Christmas-themed poems to peruse over the festive season.
Charbonnel et Walker Milk Chocolate Handbag & Heels, John Lewis, ยฃ7

Stylish and tasty โ the perfect gift for every shoe-loving lady!
How to Dress for Success, V&A Shop, ยฃ9.99

Edith Head, Hollywood designer to the stars, offers no-nonsense fashion advice straight from the 1960s. There is still much to learn today from Headโs witty style tips and delightful drawings. Bound in real cloth with ribbon page marker and foil embossing.
Happy Advent!
